The very real and honest reason men cheat

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Reason men cheat: We all “know” that men (and likely women, too) cheat because the sex with you isn’t that good anymore and they’ve found something better elsewhere, right? Well, it turns out, that’s not true at all. There’s something else quite remarkable going on behind all of that cheating. For the most part, the reason why men cheat isn’t because they want to trade up for a younger, hotter, thinner, blonder babe than you. And even if craving better sex is a motivating factor for him, it’s still further down on the list than you’d ever imagine.

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So, why do men cheat? The number one reason is due to a lack of emotional appreciation.

Yes, that’s right. Call the guy a sex-obsessed, superficial, cheating jerk all you want. But the reason why men cheat is that he just wanted to feel appreciated by YOU! To appreciate him means recognizing the full worth he brings to the table and openly expressing gratitude to him for his efforts and contributions.

Think for a moment when you feel unappreciated. You probably also felt resentful, overwhelmed, angry, rejected, or even sad. In this state, imagine someone coming to you and saying, “We need to talk,” pointing out a way you could do something better, or a way you’re messing up. How would that make you feel? How would you likely respond?

Now, think of a time when you felt truly appreciated. You probably also felt confident and proud, like your tail is wagging. Perhaps you felt like you’re doing your thing really well; that what you contribute makes a difference, and that you uniquely matter. In this state, imagine someone coming to you and saying, “We need to talk,” pointing out a way you could do something better, or a way you’re messing up. How would you feel and respond now? It’s a big difference, right? 

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